Shari’s Trick-or-Treat Scavenger Hunt

Last year we wanted to do something special for the kids that wasn’t the traditional trick or treating since we didn’t know if they’d even be able to trick-or-treat (ahem 2020). We decided to create a scavenger hunt that was age appropriate for each kid and something we could all do together. We created clues and prizes with an epic finale. The kids LOVED it and I think it could be a fun idea to use in the future if Halloween happens to fall on a weird week day or you want to switch things up for your kiddos!

We started by writing down each kid’s name (oldest to youngest) and decided we would map out locations near our home (about a 5 mile radius and 10 mile loop which we would drive – not walk). We would pick locations that were “hard or easy” to describe and make clues for each location. We had a series of three clues ranging from vague descriptions to practically giving the location away. Each kid wanted all three clues because they thought they were so fun and they definitely were able to guess the place by the final clue.

The first location was the nearby graveyard. The second location was the soccer field and the third location was the local grocery store. The list goes on! At each location we would go to the trunk and get the “token” (a painted rock) for the location and a candy or toy that was already pre-planned out. 

For example: the graveyard – the rock had an RIP headstone painted on it and we gave them each glow stick bracelets. The soccer field – the rock had a soccer ball painted on it and the kids got candy bars. The grocery store was the logo painted on the rock and they got more glowsticks to make necklaces. The other locations around town were the community garden, playground, library, firestation, park, and our neighbors house.

We did nine locations total (3 per kid) with the final location at our neighbor’s house who had large goodie bags and toys for the kids and snacks/food set up like a party. It was a fun way to end the scavenger hunt and something the kids will remember forever. They each kept their rocks and talked about how fun the scavenger hunt was for months. The other day I saw one of the rocks in their room and they said, “that was so fun!”

I am definitely not saying don’t trick-or-treat but I hope I can inspire you to do something fun or unique if Halloween falls on a weekday or seems to lack the usual spark. Scavenger hunts are also fun for kids that get “too old” for the traditional trick-or-treating. So I encourage you to think outside the box and make fun memories with your family whenever you can.

Happy Halloween!

Kendall on Halloween Preparations

Starting in early September, Rosemary began watching Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin. A lot. Like multiple times on any given day. There are worse things for a toddler to get into so I indulged this. Now, Halloween is a few days away and I am ready to be done with the darn great pumpkin for a while. Since the big day is near we have prepared our house with the great pumpkin spirit but we have also carved our pumpkins, purchased our candy, and are doing everything we can to avoid scary movies (Issy and I are not into those- at all!). 

This year, Rosemary became obsessed (thanks to a book from her Tia Dina) with Audrey Hepburn. So I did a thing. I definitely found a Breakfast at Tiffany’s outfit for toddlers. It comes complete with a tiara, earrings, gloves, and a classic Tiffany & Co. blue bag. Oh- there are even big sunglasses! She looks so stinkin’ cute- I can’t handle it. 

We keep Halloween fairly simple. Issy and I aren’t big into dressing up so we definitely try to make fun memories for our kiddo. We want her to have fun with the season! This year, she and I watched “Coco.” It inspired us to create our own Dia de los Muertos altar. We have decorated it with marigolds, pumpkins, succulents, and candles. On it, we have pictures of those who have passed on. Rosemary finds the altar fun to look at and is learning about her family in a small way. She knows where her Grandma Rosemary is. She knows that Betty made my baby blanket. And sadly, she is just starting to learn about my great uncle who passed away a few weeks back. We have about 8 or so pictures up there and will be adding more relatives of some of our friends who want to add to the altar. It’s beautiful to look at despite it also being sad. 

Last year, we went out of our way to make Halloween Covid safe. I prepackaged candy wearing masks AND gloves. We left everything out on a table in our driveway and despite it being 2020, it was still all gone by 8 pm (we started at 5:30 pm). This year, I won’t be doing that. We are going to leave candy in a basket and monitor it as kids come and go. Most kids are fairly honorable about how much to take so I am not worried about running out too fast. I am more worried about the rain that’s expected here in Vermont. That is just going to suck. 

What are you doing to get ready for Halloween? Do you have costumes? Are you doing a party? What kind of candy do you like? Is it bad I am going to use the candy to bribe Rosemary into potty training? 

Happy Halloween!

Kendall’s Music List

I love music. I hate playing music but I love listening to music. As a kid, I was constantly in the car with people who had major differing tastes from each other. My mom loved country and pop. My dad was a rock and classical kind of man. My grandmother was a lover of all things classic like Sinatra and Bennett. Needless to say, I wasn’t allowed to really switch the station often. When I was in their car, it was their music that we listened to. This made me very tolerable and accepting of all kinds of music. 

To date, I love a healthy mix of genres. I love Taylor Swift, Tony Bennett, Garth Brooks, Kendrick Lamar, John Williams, Beyonce, Marcus King, Adele, Banners, Cardi B, Bing Crosby and The Goo Goo Dolls. I like it all. I appreciate that different kinds of music fit in with different moments of my day. I always have a song for every occasion. I would have made a great person who picks music for movies. Who has that job? That must be awesome. 

Anyways, it’s fall and it’s my favorite time to really curate a good and cozy playlist to get me through my day and, today, I am sharing that with you. This playlist is really a walk through my mind as different things happen during my day. There’s some calm, some pumped up fun, some classics, and even some sad stuff. Enjoy and let me know if there is anything you are currently loving in music!

The Beatles- Let It Be
Tchaikovsky- ANYTHING from Swan Lake
The Goo Goo Dolls- Better Days
Cardi B- WAP (feat. Megan Thee Stallion)
P!nk- All I Know So Far
Imagine Dragons- Demons
Banners- Someone To You
Beyonce- Sorry
Garth Brooks- We Shall Be Free
Kanye West- Black Skinhead
Jess Glynne- Hold My Hand
Chris Stapleton- More Of You
Vince Giraldi Trio- Charlie Brown theme song
Sarah McLachlan- Ice Cream
Marc Anthony- Vivir Mi Vida
Tony Bennett- I Left My Heart In San Francisco
Taylor Swift- Call It What You Want
Dolly Parton- Jolene
Adele- Easy On Me
Howard Shore- ANYTHING from the LOTR/Hobbit movies (Ride of the Rohirrim is my jam lately)
Stevie Nicks- If You Ever Did Believe
Enya- Only Time
Enrique Iglesias- Duele El Corazon (feat. Wisin)
The Verve- Bittersweet Symphony
Theme from Harry’s Game- Clannad
Steve Tyrell- Give Me The Simple Life
Joe Rojo (Rojo on Spotify)- Chuckanut Drive (also known as Michael’s Song. Michael was my cousin who passed away when I was a little girl. Joe played this song at my mom’s funeral and always obliged me with this song when I was shopping at the Nordstrom in Seattle, WA as one of the resident piano players).

Seriously- this is all over the place but this is the stuff I love listening to. Enjoy!


Shari’s Birthday Wish List

It’s my birthday week and although it is hard to know if you are going to even get gifts as an adult, it is still fun to make a list of things you want or need. Thank goodness for shareable wish-lists. Apparently I am on-trend with items this year and I just want to be WARM!

Electric Hand Warmer

My friend had one when we went camping and I immediately knew that it was going to make it on my birthday/Christmas list. I am notoriously cold and think this rechargeable hand warmer would be the perfect addition to my warmth goals! 

Scarf Blanket

Cozy, soft, and bright… sign me up! I think I was drawn to this scarf because it could double as a blanket.

Electric Wood Stove

Okay this is a pricey item but still one that I would love to have. It’s not as much of a “need” but is more of a “want” since I already have a smaller version that I literally use everyday for the ambiance (wood stoves have my heart, even if they are fake).

Arc’teryx Atom AR Hoodie

The BEST jacket (but even thicker)! My favorite Arc’teryx jacket is the Atom LT Hoodie but there are times where I wish it was a smidge warmer and insert the Atom AR Hoodie. I don’t own it yet but I will eventually. 

Wool Socks 

Simple, cute, and you guessed it…WARM! I am a fan of having quality and cute socks for wearing around the house, in my boots, and especially on chilly nights when I’m camping. 

Wild Rye x SheJumps Girafficorn Base Layers 

Full disclosure: I already own these (thanks to my husband). SheJumps is an organization near and dear to my heart and they partnered with this apparel company called Wild Rye to make the cutest girafficorn spotted base layer I have ever seen. In an effort to support the collaboration I bought them on pre-order and have waited months for the final product. Worth the wait, I love them!  

Fjallraven Beanie

Well honestly I’d take fjallraven anything but this beanie is so cute. The red was sold out so I opted for the Red Oak color because it still looks so cute! Who doesn’t want a red quality beanie in their life?!

Apple Watch Sport Loop Band 

I have tried a lot of apple watch bands and hands down this band is the best! My husband surprised me with an early birthday gift, a new apple watch and I can’t wait to get another sport loop band for it! 

There you have it! A Birthday wish-list from yours truly. Is there anything on this list that you’d want too or something you’d add? Maybe this will inspire you to get a head-start on your Christmas lists, it is never too early to plan. I’d love to hear what would be on your current wish-list! Comment below.

Kendall’s Favorite One Pot (Almost) Dinner

Kendall’s Favorite One Pot (Almost) Dinner

It’s fall! It’s cold! Life starts changing from lazy summer days to busier ones. I love ANYTHING that saves me time in the kitchen. That is why one pot meals are sort of my favorite. Simple meals that you can change up a bit and rely on to feed your friends or family are what I gravitate towards these days. With that said, here is one of my favorite one pot meals!

Harvest Pasta with Sun-dried Tomato Sausage

Ingredients:

  • 2 tbsp avocado oil (really any oil is fine)
  • 1 package of sun-dried tomato chicken sausage (I get mine from Trader Joes) sliced up
  • 1 red bell pepper thinly sliced
  • 1/2 yellow onion thickly sliced
  • 1/2 a bag (or more) of spinach
  • 3 cloves garlic minced
  • 1 jar Trader Joes Autumnal Harvest Creamy Pasta Sauce
  • 1 package fusilli pasta OR 1 package of cauliflower rice (this makes it more Keto AND has the benefit of being a total 1 pot meal)
  • **Cheese of choice

To prepare:

  • First, wash all of your produce!
  • Then slice the vegetables that need slicing and mince the garlic that needs mincing
  • If making the pasta version, get your water boiling and throw in a generous of salt (and I do mean generous portion)
  • Once the water is boiling, throw in your pasta to cook
  • Meanwhile, sauté down your onion, garlic, and bell pepper (about 5-6 minutes and this is also where you can slice up your sausage) and then throw in your sliced chicken sausage to cook together for about 5 minutes
  • Then toss in your jar of sauce to start cooking with all of your goodies
  • About two minutes later throw in your spinach
  • Right before the fusilli is finished (so at around 6-7 minutes but all stoves may vary) remove from heat and drain before tossing the pasta into your sauce mixture
  • Let it cook together for about 4-5 minutes
  • Turn off heat, dish up, and toss with cheese!
  • **IF using cauliflower rice (like I did last night) add in your cauliflower rice between the vegetables sautéing down and adding in the protein and follow the rest of the steps.

Easy clean up. Easy dinner. Under 30 minutes. YES, please! Enjoy!

Shari’s Favorite Fall Recipe: Beef Stew

Shari’s Favorite Fall Recipe: Beef Stew

Shari- Fall recipes

Maybe it is the crisp air and the cooler mornings or the fact that fall brings the desire for warmth and comfort. Whatever it is, I tend to always take out and hug my slow cooker this time of year. Okay, I don’t hug it but I do have a new found love for it as I transition into Fall. The smell of a homemade meal that is hot and ready with minimal effort made… is there anything better? A favorite fall recipe of mine is beef stew. I think I love it so much because I don’t really need to measure, I can just take a bunch of ingredients and just throw it together. That being said, I know that most people like to follow a recipe, so I will break it down for you. I hope you enjoy my hearty beef stew recipe…

Shari’s Beef Stew:

1-2 pounds stew meat
1 bag of small carrots 
2-3 potatoes (or parsnips if you want to make it more Keto friendly)
4 stalks of celery cut into half inch pieces 
1 onion (cut in thicker pieces)
2 bay leaves
1 tablespoon minced garlic
2 tablespoons Worchestire sauce
4-5 cups of beef broth 
2 tablespoons tomato paste
(I don’t use a thickener)

Add all the ingredients to your slow cooker and cook on low for 8 hours. Take out the bay leaves and serve hot. Enjoy!

Kendall: Fall in Vermont

Vermont in the autumn time is breathtaking. Like, breathtaking. The leaves draw in a lot of tourists from around the New England area this time of year and this year is no exception. Last year, the leaves started to turn a bit early. This year? A little later. The “peak” leaf time frame is projected to be soon- within the next 10-12 days. What this means is that the colors will be the most vibrant and dense between now and the end of next week. Today, I actually took a very out of the way road home JUST to see the leaves. And let me tell you- they. did. not. disappoint. 

My backyard!

As a lover of all things fall, Vermont is the perfect place for me. Even my backyard is gorgeous this time of year… despite the dying plants that are about to get cleaned up for fall clean-up (a very big thing in Vermont). While travelling is still a little tough for some, if you happen to find yourself headed this way any time soon (or even next year), here are some fun things to check out around the state!

Smugglers Notch Road-

This is a historical path in VT. It’s also very dangerous and closes for the long winter months due to the inclement weather and the danger it poses to the road. It’s a sharp and windey path and if you come, do me a favor. SLOW DOWN. We all know you’re a tourist if we see you taking the turns on the road like a total fool (Yup- I am talking you, Massachusetts.). But, if you can- it’s worth the drive. The leaves are seriously gorgeous and make you feel like you are in a movie. 

Apple Picking-

Apple picking is hot here. There are so many local orchards. Some have already picked apples so that you can buy a bag while others let you hit the trees to grab your own. The orchards are usually incredibly family friendly and offer snacks, creamies (a big thing in New England), and even have activities for kids! 

Visit a Brewery-

So apparently there are brewery tours? I can’t speak to that but I am sure you can google it. What I can tell you is that this is a fantastic time to visit a brewery. The weather isn’t too hot and it’s not balls cold yet. I love a brewery with good beer AND good food. Some of my favorites include Zero Gravity, Fiddlehead, and Four Quarters.

Visit Cold Hollow Cider Mill-

Located in Waterbury, VT, Cold Hollow Cider Mill is THE place to get your apple cider donuts. You can also watch them press fresh apple cider. The smell of the place alone will make your mouth water. And for all of your touristy needs, they have a ton of stuff for you to buy to take a little bit of VT home with you or to someone else! AND across the driveway is their restaurant called, Apple Core. This belongs to Cold Hollow and is their luncheonette where you can have a delicious sandwich and sample local hard ciders. They also have a few brews on tap. Find something you like? See if it is their retail space behind the register and take it with you on your journey! 

Maple Syrup-

It’s everywhere. Seriously. If you want local syrup, keep your eye out for roadside stands. If you are desperate, most grocery stores sell local stuff too. It’s EVERYWHERE! OR if you are me, you are lucky that your neighbor taps some of the trees in his backyard during the winter and makes his own… and he even shares! I call that winning. 

Fall Festivals-

There a ton. Most fall festivals have great food, local artists, and general fun for the family. This weekend alone there are about 5 happening throughout Vermont. Google it and find one near you! 

If you come to Vermont, come to relax and enjoy the scenery. People are friendly and welcome your company. There is so much to see, taste, and do here at this time of year. It’s hard not to enjoy it- even if you are a bit sad that the summer weather is gone for the next 7 months… There’s nothing like fall in Vermont!

Shari: Sometimes, We Need a Break!

Hey girlfriends, this blog post is for you. The other day I was sitting at my desk feeling emotionally exhausted from a busy and unusually stressful day at work. That same evening I knew my sweet step kids were on their way and dinner would be demanded the moment they walked through the door (I was right) and in that moment I just wanted to tag out from my life for a second. I didn’t want to reply to another email or cook dinner for anyone. What I wanted was to curl up in a ball on the couch with the fireplace going, soft music playing, and just close my eyes for an unknown amount of time. 

Have you been there?

I firmly believe that as women, moms, friends, partners, and ladies in general we should get a “pass” to check out for an evening (or maybe even an entire weekend). I mean life is exhausting, I understand that life is a gift but you can’t tell me you don’t think it is a little overwhelming and  exhausting at times. A break of any sort can be just the thing you need.

So what do we do when we feel this way? I am sure if you are anything like me you just take a deep breath and look forward to whatever “feels like a break” activity or time you have. That may look like the extra 30 minutes you allow yourself before the rest of your family wakes up, it could look like the extra few minutes out of your morning drive to get yourself a coffee, or it could be quite literally walking over to the couch and shutting your eyes for a bit. Whatever it looks like for you, make the time. Life is beautiful and if we are exhausting ourselves to the point of needing a break or feeling that fatigue, LISTEN TO YOUR BODY and obey it. Somehow find that break for yourself so that you can feel even an ounce more rejuvenated than you did before. 

We are all collectively there, in some way, shape, or form… we all know the feeling of being “over it”. That feeling is so simply relatable across humanity which is why I decided to call it out in this blog post. I have heard it from ALL of my girlfriends at one point or another. Most of the time I hear every excuse as to why a “break” isn’t possible. The thing is, if you are feeling like you need a break it is because you do. That initial feeling of needing a break can quickly spiral into a mental breakdown and impact your overall health. It is important and mandatory that you stop pushing yourself to the side and make yourself a priority. Like I have said on other blog posts, no one is going to put you first but YOU!

So take that break. Listen to what your body and mind need. Advocate for yourself and the fact that you deserve a damn break! If you struggle with the concept of taking a break… listen to this Ted Talk by Melinda Choy.