Shari’s Trick-or-Treat Scavenger Hunt

Last year we wanted to do something special for the kids that wasn’t the traditional trick or treating since we didn’t know if they’d even be able to trick-or-treat (ahem 2020). We decided to create a scavenger hunt that was age appropriate for each kid and something we could all do together. We created clues and prizes with an epic finale. The kids LOVED it and I think it could be a fun idea to use in the future if Halloween happens to fall on a weird week day or you want to switch things up for your kiddos!

We started by writing down each kid’s name (oldest to youngest) and decided we would map out locations near our home (about a 5 mile radius and 10 mile loop which we would drive – not walk). We would pick locations that were “hard or easy” to describe and make clues for each location. We had a series of three clues ranging from vague descriptions to practically giving the location away. Each kid wanted all three clues because they thought they were so fun and they definitely were able to guess the place by the final clue.

The first location was the nearby graveyard. The second location was the soccer field and the third location was the local grocery store. The list goes on! At each location we would go to the trunk and get the “token” (a painted rock) for the location and a candy or toy that was already pre-planned out. 

For example: the graveyard – the rock had an RIP headstone painted on it and we gave them each glow stick bracelets. The soccer field – the rock had a soccer ball painted on it and the kids got candy bars. The grocery store was the logo painted on the rock and they got more glowsticks to make necklaces. The other locations around town were the community garden, playground, library, firestation, park, and our neighbors house.

We did nine locations total (3 per kid) with the final location at our neighbor’s house who had large goodie bags and toys for the kids and snacks/food set up like a party. It was a fun way to end the scavenger hunt and something the kids will remember forever. They each kept their rocks and talked about how fun the scavenger hunt was for months. The other day I saw one of the rocks in their room and they said, “that was so fun!”

I am definitely not saying don’t trick-or-treat but I hope I can inspire you to do something fun or unique if Halloween falls on a weekday or seems to lack the usual spark. Scavenger hunts are also fun for kids that get “too old” for the traditional trick-or-treating. So I encourage you to think outside the box and make fun memories with your family whenever you can.

Happy Halloween!

Kendall on Halloween Preparations

Starting in early September, Rosemary began watching Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin. A lot. Like multiple times on any given day. There are worse things for a toddler to get into so I indulged this. Now, Halloween is a few days away and I am ready to be done with the darn great pumpkin for a while. Since the big day is near we have prepared our house with the great pumpkin spirit but we have also carved our pumpkins, purchased our candy, and are doing everything we can to avoid scary movies (Issy and I are not into those- at all!). 

This year, Rosemary became obsessed (thanks to a book from her Tia Dina) with Audrey Hepburn. So I did a thing. I definitely found a Breakfast at Tiffany’s outfit for toddlers. It comes complete with a tiara, earrings, gloves, and a classic Tiffany & Co. blue bag. Oh- there are even big sunglasses! She looks so stinkin’ cute- I can’t handle it. 

We keep Halloween fairly simple. Issy and I aren’t big into dressing up so we definitely try to make fun memories for our kiddo. We want her to have fun with the season! This year, she and I watched “Coco.” It inspired us to create our own Dia de los Muertos altar. We have decorated it with marigolds, pumpkins, succulents, and candles. On it, we have pictures of those who have passed on. Rosemary finds the altar fun to look at and is learning about her family in a small way. She knows where her Grandma Rosemary is. She knows that Betty made my baby blanket. And sadly, she is just starting to learn about my great uncle who passed away a few weeks back. We have about 8 or so pictures up there and will be adding more relatives of some of our friends who want to add to the altar. It’s beautiful to look at despite it also being sad. 

Last year, we went out of our way to make Halloween Covid safe. I prepackaged candy wearing masks AND gloves. We left everything out on a table in our driveway and despite it being 2020, it was still all gone by 8 pm (we started at 5:30 pm). This year, I won’t be doing that. We are going to leave candy in a basket and monitor it as kids come and go. Most kids are fairly honorable about how much to take so I am not worried about running out too fast. I am more worried about the rain that’s expected here in Vermont. That is just going to suck. 

What are you doing to get ready for Halloween? Do you have costumes? Are you doing a party? What kind of candy do you like? Is it bad I am going to use the candy to bribe Rosemary into potty training? 

Happy Halloween!

Kendall On Halloween

Kendall On Halloween

Halloween is a time for increased sugar intake, spooky pranks, and fun costume parties. Except, here is the thing: I dislike dressing up, I am easily scared of, pretty much, any prank AND I really don’t like candy all that much. Blasphemous, I know! I am not creative enough to ever come up with a cute costume and the days of being a sexy pirate are long gone… like, really, long gone. Scary movies are a no-go in this family; the scariest my husband and I will go is watching “Silence of the Lambs.” Even then, I won’t sleep well. And truthfully, candy hurts my tummy.

I am always looking for fun ways to celebrate this time of the year and, for me, that is watching some light-hearted witch movies, baking pumpkin bread, and dressing my daughter up in cute things. Last year, she was RBG. This year, she is going to be Mary Poppins a la Jolly Holiday/Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. Her outfit is ON POINT and was made in exacting detail by my ridiculously talented mother-in-law. She even made the hat and parasol… stay tuned for outfit pictures on Saturday via TSE stories on Instagram. 

While I don’t go crazy on Halloween, I have compiled some fun ideas on how to celebrate COVID-19 style…

  1. Candy is a really controversial subject this year- do we hand out candy? Do we put bags of candy out? Is that even too risky? That’s up to all of you and your communities to decide… Our neighborhood has decided to do bags of candy and set them out on the doorsteps/tables in driveways for kids to be picked up. Most people will be monitoring the tables (with a mask and gloves) to make sure older kids don’t steal the bags because apparently that’s a thing? If that’s too risky for you- then I say buy the candy and make Halloween Candy Cookie Bars (courtesy of Tasty) for you to chow down on as you snuggle in on Saturday night. 
  2. Brew up a yummy Fall-like cocktail and zoom with your friends! Every year, Issy and I make this yummy spiked cider punch and this year is no different- Coronavirus or not! Since we won’t be sharing this with a group of people, we will be making a much smaller batch. Here is a great recipe from the Food Network called Spiked Apple Cider Cocktails. 
  3. SKIP the scary movie because 2020 has been scary enough. Watch something fun like “Hocus Pocus.” Laugh. Let’s try and laugh more. There is absolutely no need to scare yourself anymore this year. 

4. If you are out and about, grab some marigolds and decorate your table with them. They are pretty, they are cheap, and they brighten up your home. Go crazy.
5. Want to dress up? Do it. Stay in. Run around your casa in costume. Take pics, FaceTime, Zoom, WhatsApp all of your friends and family. But- stay in if you can. Be smart. Don’t go to a Halloween party… why risk it? Yesterday I ran into the gas station for less than 2 minutes and realized an hour later that I didn’t put my mask on… I am shocked and mad at myself that I was THAT person. It was an honest mistake. Regardless, it was still risky… going to a party would just be intentionally reckless and putting yourself, and your fellow party goers at risk.

You can still have fun on Saturday- that fun may just look different than before and that’s ok! It’s not forever! BUT if we aren’t smart now, the return to “normal” could take even longer. 

Something I am really wanting to do next year is a Day of the Dead ofrenda. I didn’t plan well enough in advance to get everything prepared that I would need for a proper altar. And if you know me, you know I don’t want to half-a## it. I want to really do it.  I love the idea of celebrating and honoring our loved ones. I can still do Halloween on the 31st AND celebrate Day of the Dead on November 1st. If you do an altar, what are your tips? 

Happy Halloween, all! Stay safe and HAVE FUN!

Shari On Halloween and How To DIY A Costume

Shari On Halloween and How To DIY A Costume

As an adult, I have grown to appreciate how important Halloween is for children. The costumes (a healthy medley of spooky monsters, princesses, and superheroes) and the candy (I mean, ALL the candy) make it such a unique and celebratory day. 

I am currently thinking back on my earliest memories of Halloween and my favorite costumes from that time. For some reason I remember painting my own face to be a scarecrow in 5th or 6th grade. The memory sticks because it was my first time really painting my face with a purpose without the help of anyone else. Surprisingly I did a decent job and I looked legit while also cute and freckled with a triangle nose and a smile that extended up near my rosy cheeks. Oh! How could I ever forget my all-time-favorite ballerina costume when I was 4 years old that doubled as an everyday dress up and dance party outfit! My parents have a ton of ballerina pictures to prove it… complete with the princess crown and boom-box too.  The ultimate adult costume was in my college days when I was a “Candy Corn Witch.” It was such a hit that it still randomly gets brought up! That same year, I definitely went all Martha Stewart and handed out decorated individual bags of candy corn to all my friends and even had more baggies of candy corn with me downtown where I proceeded to dump piles of loose candy corn into people’s hands or candy bags… I am pretty sure that would be frowned upon in this COVID era of life. 

As much as I have enjoyed my fair share of Halloween dressing up over the years, nothing fully prepared me for Halloween at the office. I currently work for a company that CELEBRATES Halloween to the extreme; every department gets decked out and there is major competition for the #1 title and bragging rights throughout the rest of the year. The office hallways get decorated, the themes discussed MONTHS in advance… I thought it was a joke when they mentioned it in my job interview. I am serious… one of my interview questions was “How do you feel about dressing up for Halloween?” Thankfully I saw my soon-to-be bosses wall of Halloween archive outfits and knew I had to say, “I feel great about it” (to be clear I wasn’t lying). Last year my department theme was “Monsters in Paradise”, our entire department was decorated with beach backdrops, flamingos, blow up pool toys, grass skirts, palm trees, and for bonus points we even had tropical food and kool-aid type drinks to stay on theme. The winner last year was the Marketing Department who created their own Netflix (I feel like it’s cheating to have access to the graphics and large printers) and had different sections as different popular shows like Stranger Things and more. 

This year, my team and I still discussed Halloween and decided to do something more fitting for the season. Stay tuned for the big reveal of my department’s virtual Halloween this year. I will share it in our Instagram stories on Saturday, October 31st. 

Technically, I have already dressed up for work this year and am still unsure what I will actually wear as a costume on Halloween but I have to say I am the most excited about my oldest stepchild’s costume. He always wants the DIY costume crafted from Value Village. I like his style and I know we don’t have many more years of creating these awesome custom outfits for him so my husband and I jumped at the opportunity to design his Captain Jack Sparrow costume from scratch. I highly recommend this to anyone who is creative enough to DIY a costume… just use your imagination. It’s the most rewarding process to see the end result actually match the picture! 

Here is how we did it:

– We found a picture we all agreed on

– Looked around the house to see if we had any items at home or if we had to order anything (like a wig)

– Decided what details mattered most and made those a priority to find at the thrift store

– At the store we picked up any and all items that looked similar to the picture 

– We gave ourselves only 30 minutes to rush around the store (Value Village) to find it all, I am telling you – you just grab and go when you have a time limit 

– At home we layered on each item, cutting the arms off a jacket to make it into a vest, tucking in oversized shirts and rolling the sleeves, strapping belts over the shoulder to match the photo, ripping up a striped scarf to tie around the waist, and for the final touches –  pirate boot gaiters! Tah-dah, we did it!!!

– We ordered a wig, a mask (Hey there- COVID Halloween), and I will do his makeup 🙂

– Enjoy a custom and probably way more cost effective and authentic costume

If you made a custom costume this year (or ever) please share below, I’d love to hear ways in which you have gotten creative!

Happy Halloween!